The first secret - the power of THOUGHT

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his or her needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The second secret - the power of RESPECT

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself, What do I respect about myself? To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, what do I respect about them?

The third secret - the power of GIVING

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The fourth secret - the power of FRIENDSHIP

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love him or her for who they are and not for what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The fifth secret - the power of TOUCH

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The sixth secret - the power of LETTING GO

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life.

The seventh secret - the power of COMMUNICATION

When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: I Love You. Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see him or her. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and why are you waiting?

The eighth secret - the power of COMMITMENT

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the TRUE test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The ninth secret - the power of PASSION

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be re-created by re-creating past experiences. When you felt passionate spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The tenth secret - the power of TRUST

Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you can trust him or her completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? If the answer is no - think carefully before making a commitment.

Today is Monday and I really do feel sluggish! I dunno why, maybe because I wasn't in the mood today or maybe because I was hanged by someone this afternoon.

Have you ever felt that someone rejected you for not knowing the real reason why? For the second and third time by the same person, what would you feel of being rejected? What do you think of this "once my resolve is formed, it cannot be changed" even she loves you and you still love her"?

I was hanged and left with that shade, thinking the possible reasons that makes this guy decided to stick from what he resolved even in return is the lost of her.

Was deciding to go to other country could be enough reason of being hurt even the reason of leaving is for her family? Or being informed that the girl you loved was baffled and confused with her feelings with her boyfriend and her best friend?

Actually, the girl was me and the man I was talking was the "first" man whom I decided to live with till the rest of my life. But because of I was confused with my feelings with my best friend, he got affected but yet I saved the relationship, I chose him because I loved him but in the later part, he leaves me after finding out that I am still decided to go to other country for my family.

Do you think there's a justice from that decision? After the break up, I may say that I became miserable in life.. Not serious with my studies, having low remarks in college changing my life style and everything were messed up as I was thinking that no one would ever take me seriously. I was involved in different problems but still, I am waiting for him to catch me but he failed me.

I am still waiting and looking forward that at the finish line, he is there waiting for me.. That thinking, that hopes, ends when I met my husband. Temporarily, moments with him and that hope, lost until January 2007 came, he visited me in my dreams, continuously, again, I go back to what I was hoping until I decided to let it go..

As I've said earlier, May 26, 2007 is the day where he stops visiting me in my dreams as I sign that I already let him go. But honestly, I wasn't moved by that shade and the book wasn't closed as how I wanted to be closed.

Hope someday, somewhere, he could tell me the reason why.. and somehow, the chapter of our book may be closed according to how it should be closed...

Hello my friend, we meet again
It's been awhile, where should we begin?
Feels like forever
Within my heart are memories
Of perfect love that you gave to me
Oh, I remember

When you are with me, I'm free
I'm careless, I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My sacrifice

We've seen our share of ups and downs
Oh how quickly life can turn around
In an instant
It feels so good to reunite
Within yourself and within your mind
Let's find peace there

When you are with me, I'm free
I'm careless, I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My sacrifice

I just want to say hello again
I just want to say hello again

When you are with me I'm free
I'm careless, I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
Cause when you are with me I am free
I'm careless, I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My sacrifice, My sacrifice

I just want to say hello again
I just want to say hello again

My sacrifice.

 I've spent half my life looking for
the reasons things must change
And half my life trying to make them stay the same
But love would fade like summer into fall
All that I could see was a mystery
It made no sense at all

The will of the wind
You feel it and then
It will pass you blowin' steady
It comes and it goes
And God only knows
You must keep you sails on ready
So when it begins get all that you can
You must befriend the will of the wind

I've spent so many hours thinking
'Bout the way thing might have been
And so many hours trying
To bring the good times back again
And so it goes for lonely hearted fools
They let their days just slip away
Until they give into

Chorus

So when it begins get all that you can
You must befriend the will of the wind

As usual.. I missed someone from my past and I really can't even help myself not to think of him nor to keep bringing back our past!

The first time I saw him was on year 1998. He's my classmate in my first sem in my first year in college. A friend of my friend then became my friend and became my boyfriend.

I remember when the first time he says he likes me, using the word "tape" just to express his feelings. Funny aiyt? I was looking for love songs in a cassette tape that time, and he is one of the people I asked to. Out of no where, he replied me this, "I don't have a love song cassette tape but I have my other tape." Through curiosity, I ask him what tape he has, and he replies me, "Tape kita". In English translation, he used tape as an equal meaning of TYPE where similar meaning of crush or like in most of Filipinos.

Without taking it seriously, he started courting me with my conditions that I wanted to be courted at home not outside home. I even asked my mom's permission if he could come at home to court me. My mom just can't believe that someone's admiring me on almost first month of my first sem on my first year in college.

August 07, 1998 - after 3 months of courting, I finally gave him my yes to him.

My very "first" serious relationship that last for almost 3 years. Lots of precious moments to be kept and I may say some sad stories and problems also been shared.  It was nearly our 3^rd year when the relationship finished. I was planned to leave our home country after college where he really disagrees, and for that reason, he left me.

Year 2001, Month of May, a year after, again, I met him... He was my classmate on my Thesis A. My "first subject" on my first sem in 4^th year. I thought after the break up, I would never see him again. I thought, there's no feelings to be shared again but I was wrong, after seeing him on my first day in school, I decided to make my first move, my first move to bring him back, to bring our relationship back but it ends to nothing.

Year 2002, Month of March, again, our path crossed once more. I wasn't expecting to share my last days in college with him. But still, after those happy days being with him, ends to nothing.

Year January 2003, I left our home country, without looking back the past. I am carrying my future plans with the only angel in my life.

13 December 2004, an email came to me from him. A forwarded email that gives way to have an update to each other, giving way to open again the closed chapter of my book with him until 07^th October 2005, 5 days before his birthday, again, I lost him, he stopped communicating with me and he's gone without saying goodbye to me.

2007 comes from January until the Month of May, I used to see him in my dreams.. I used to hear the songs we used to sing, the "song" that makes me remember of him. I used to open my emails hoping that he emailed me but nothing was there, I was troubled and bothered for no reason why.

May 26, 2007 - He stops visiting me in my dreams maybe because it was the day I surrender myself to someone i love aside from him.

Then 18^th July 2007, Wednesday.. When I tried to open my YM in my email add, adding me up from a familiar name surprised me.

And now, reminiscing the past with him, reading the email we had, makes me feel sad.. yet happy coz after all those years that goes by, I still have you, though not as what I dreamed of but a friend that always there for me and "never let me down".

Missing you..

Today afternoon, I received an e-mail from a friend from the SFC (Singles For Christ) Community and it is a story of a wife losing her feelings to her husband.

I was touched by the story and left by a simple but striking message.

LOSING the ROMANCE

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before,
has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

"Why?" he asked, shocked. "I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered.

He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can't even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him?

And finally he asked me:" What can I do to change your mind?" Somebody said it right, it's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have

started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : "Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let's say, I want
a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?"

He said :" I will give you your answer tomorrow...."

My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table
near the front door, that goes....

My dear,
"I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further.."

This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help
to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.

You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs.   So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand... and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face...

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do. .. I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting... and as I continue on reading...

"Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread

and fresh milk...

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread...

Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone...

That's life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in
between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form... flowers, and romantic

Moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... and that's our life...

Love, not words win arguments...

Yesterday evening, a friend asked me if I had read her blog. Since I am not aware of her updated bolg, I read it. It titled, FINISH LINE. It tackling about your CHOICE, where she says that Happiness is a matter of choice.

Well, each one of us has its own choice. We are given some options to choose, if you're going to have the right way or the left way, or if you wanted to stop and go back or to go ahead and continue.

At the end of this blog, let me leave a simple reminder.

"For every choice we made, always remember that there are consequences waiting. Might be bad, might be good, depends on the choice we chose".

God Bless!

Why's life like this? Whenever you feel secured and contented, someone or something will come up to clatter your peaceful and happy life!

Most of my friends were battling in this kind of situation; even I got into this. Making our mind confused and our life bothered and keep asking ourselves "why??". But for sure, there's a reason why they showed up! Everything has its own reason.

Maybe, God is testing our faith and our loyalty to HIM or to someone we loved.

Maybe, He's testing our strength in facing the situation.

Or maybe, He wanted to show or to say something to us.

Long time ago, I've been in this kind of situation where in fact, someone came along from my peaceful life. I thought, the reason why he came is because he is a God's Gift to me. But I was wrong, God's keeps on bringing him back to me, just to know how courageous I am and to test if I already learned from whatever mistakes I've done. God also wanted me to realize that I have to let him go as he never meant for me. Don't hold on to what I want coz God has better plans to what we want.

Lately, again, he tested me and my faith to him and to someone I loved, to be exact my Hubby. Someone came along to spoil my passive life. He came with an intension to interfere to my married life - my happy, pleased, blissful married life. I don't want to go in detailed but I was so grateful of having them, MY GOD, MY G and MY TRUE FRIENDS, to be there without me saying anything about what happened. I thank all of them coz I've passed the test! Though part of the situation almost fails me but because I've got them, HIM our God, and my love to someone, it never allows me to get failed.

Indeed, God has his own ways of testing us.

So for all the people who are in this kind of situation, pause for a while, think and pray. Ask for God's guidance to show you the right way and give you the gift of discernment.

God never give us a test or trials that we can't survive, so, don't get baffled coz God is always here for us.

Kaninang umaga, naka-received ako ng text mula sa Mommy ko. Nangangamusta sa amin at ni-reply ung tanong ko. Pero ang pinakagusto kong sinabi ng Mommy ko sa text, eto: (di ko na kukumpletohin ha.. hila hila ko lang ‘to don sa mga tinext ni mami)

"Mas nakakatuwang malaman na nag-uusap sila."

"Mas gugustuhin kong magkaron ng binding kahit hindi tunay na mag-ama.."

"Mas ok un love ang ibigay nya para sa bata kaysa sa pangalan.."

"Natutuwa nga ako sa anak mo kanina, maganda gising. Naka-smile paglabas ng kwarto. Hanggang pag-alis ko, walang sumpong. Sana nga laging ganon. Inspired siguro sa pagtawag nyo.."

"Sa baby sister, sabi ko kasi pagmabait siya, bibigyan nyo sya"

Hay.. walang mapaglagyan ang nag-uumapaw kong saya!!! Sa patnubay ng ating Poong May Kapal, ibibigay nya ang ligayang nararamdaman namin ngayon at alam ko, ipagpapatuloy nya kung ano mang saya meron ang family ko.

Alam ko, makakasama ko rin ang anak ko dito.

Sa dami ng kaganapan na naganap sa akin nitong nagdaang araw.. pangit man o maganda, masaya akong nagdaan ang kahapon sa buhay ko dahil kahapon na yata ang pinakamasayang araw na nagdaan sa akin nitong isang linggong nagdaan!

Pero bago simulan ang kwento ko kung bakit sobrang saya ko, sana, matapos nyong basahin ang blog kong ito dahil inuunahan ko na kayo, masyado kasi syang mahaba. Please bear with me.

Papauwi ako ng bahay galling opisina nang tumawag ako sa Pilipinas:

Ako:     Hello? Daddy! Kamusta? Anong gawa mo?

Daddy: Eto nagtotong-its

Ako:     So nasa labas ka? Sinong tao sa bahay?

Daddy: Sina Dong at angel. Bakit kakausapin mo?

Ako:     Opo sana eh.

Daddy: Saglit

Hindi ko alam kung anong ginawa ni Daddy, siguro, tumayo, naglakad hanggang sa naiabot ang telepono sa mga bata.

Dong:   Hello ate!

Ako:     O! Sino ‘to?

Dong:   Si Dong to.

Ako:     O dong, kamusta? Kamusta ang schooling mo?

Dong:   Ok lang ate. Ate may hihingin akong favor sayo.

Ako:     (Kinakabahan dahil ang favor na un eh pabili nanaman) Ano un?

Dong:   Naalala mo ung celfon na colored na iniwan mo dito? Kanino na un?

Ako:     Sa ate mutya mo. Kinuha nya eh, ipinalit sa akin un 3310

Dong:   Ganon ba?

Maya maya may batang sumisingit.

Angel:   Mommy Eriz! Si Tita Mutya may bagong shelfon galing kay ninong owen.

Ako:     Talaga? Kamusta naman ang baby ko?

Angel:   Mommy, nung baby ka pa kay Lola Mommy ka lumabas?

Ako:     Opo

Angel:   Nakita mo ba ako nung baby ako?

Ako:     Opo. Ako po kaya nag-alaga sayo.

Angel:   Talaga?

Ako:     Opo

Angel:   Nakita ko picture mo nung baby ka pa.

Ako:     Kamukha kita di ba?

Angel:   (Nanahimik dahil nag-iisip ata)

Ako:     Eh ikaw san ka ba lumabas?

Angel:   Eh saan pa, eh di sayo! Ikaw mommy ko di ba?

Ako:     Opo

Angel:   Si Daddy Dan nasan?

Ako:     Nasa bahay

Angel:   Eh nasan ka po ba?

Ako:     Pauwi ng bahay

Angel:   Nasa jeep?

Ako:     Hindi po naglalakad

Angel:   Ai poor si mommy kasi naglalakad

Ako:     Kasi po nag-iipon ako pang school mo eh. Kamusta school mo? Madami ka bang stars?

Angel:   Wala po.

Ako:     Ai, bakit wala? Pano kita bibilhan ng madaming shrek at saka ng Harry Potter?

Angel:   Eh kasi wala po akong pasok ngayon kaya wala akong stars.

Ako:     (natatawa) Eh bakit sabi ni Tita Poocihe at saka Tito Jae-jae, maraming ka daw stars sa school?

Angel:   Eh wala na nga, kasi nabura na, kaya wala na akong stars. Naliligo kasi ako kaya nabubura.

Ako:     (lalong natawa)

Angel:   Mommy, uwi na kayo ni Daddy Dan. Nonood tayo ng High Five at saka Harry Potter. Nasan ba kasi si Daddy Dan, kakausapin ko.

Ako:     Nasa bahay po eh.

Angel:   Anong ginagawa sa bahay? Sabihin mo kakausapin ko sya. Please mommy.

Ako:      O sige, mamaya tatawag ulit ako, uuwi muna ako, kausapin mo Daddy Dan ha.

Angel:   Promise mo yan ha.

Ako:     Opo promise. Tatawag kami ni Daddy Dan mamaya.

Angel:   I love you mommy eriz.

Ako:     I love you angel. Kiss ko.

Angel:   mwah! Mwah! Mwah! Mmmwwaaahh! Ayan mommy madami na kiss ko ha.

Ako:     Opo. Cge na po, tawag ako mamaya. I love you. Ba-bye

Angel:   I love you, ba-bye

Syempre, pagdating ko sa bahay, nagpahinga muna nang konti, nakipag-asaran kay Dan, kumain ng tanghalian at nakipag-asaran ulit. Late man naming tinawagan ang anak ko, naging masaya pa rin naman ang pag-uusap.

Kabilang Linya: Hello?

Ako:                 Daddy!

Daddy:              O! bakit?

Ako:                 Daddy, si Angel? Kakausapin kasi ni Dan.

Daddy:              Saglit

Pero habang hinahanap ni daddy si angel, kinakausap muna ni daddy si dan. Nang makita si Angel, eto bungad nya.

Angel:               Tita poochie, nahihiya ako.

Tita Poocihie:    Sige na kausap mo na daddy dan mo

Daddy Dan:      Hello pam!

Angel:               Hello! I LOVE YOU DADDY DAN!

Daddy Dan:      I love you too. Anong gawa mo?

Angel:               (nagkwento na ng nagkwento)

Maya maya..

Angel:              Daddy, may kapatid na  ba ako?

Daddy Dan:      Wala pa eh.

Angel:              Bakit wala?

Daddy Dan:       Eh hindi pa binibigay ni Lord eh

Angel:              Daddy, gusto ko baby girl ha

Daddy Dan:       Bakit baby girl?

Angel:              Kasi tatawag ko sa kanya Boo (at nagkwento pa ulit ng nagkwento hanggang sa mapagod)

Angel:               Ba-bye Daddy Dan! Ba-bye Mommy Eriz! I love you Daddy Dan! I love you Mommy Eriz!

Hay.. nakakaiyak di ba? At ang sarap marinig sa anak mong nagsasabing mahal ka nya! Hindi ko ma-explain ang nararamdaman ko noong mga oras na nagsasabi na mahal ako ng anak ko. Mahal KAMI ng anak ko. Iba ang paki-ramdam. Aside from it. Naramdaman ko kung gaano kami kamiss ng baby ko. Kung gaano ka-welcome si Dan kay Angel at si Angel kay Dan. Masaya akong nakikitang magkasundo ang dalawang mahal ko sa buhay.

Hay.. Cant wait the day na makasama ulit namin ang baby namin.

2 days back, I was in full energy. And in those 2 days, I always asked God to give me more strength in everything that I am doing. 2 days of late night sleeps (o baka nga early morning sleeps na eh) and then, have to wake up as well as early as I could para naman pumasok sa work. But still I'm in my full energy and kicking! Sabi ko nga kay Nanay Lei, "Ok lang na magpuyat at mapagod! I am just giving HIM back all the blessing that HE gave me these past few days and months.. kaya no problem! Serve kung serve!".

But today morning, I feel so tired and sad.. para bang naramdaman ko ang pagod na dapat na naramdaman ko noong past 2 days. I suddenly feel exhausted for some reasons.

Nakakahinayang lang kasi na after all the things that you're doing, for all the efforts that you have done eh you will see your anakis na walang gana. Feel dull or having lots of reasons just to refrain from the activities, which are totally opposite of what I expected. I can't even see my "anakis" the way I am. Even the bonding that I and my middle household had.

Natatandaan ko pa, with my middle household, wala kaming pinalagpas na activities ng Singles For Christ during our Batch. Kahit walang pera, GO SAGO kaming lahat! Kinareer namin talaga ang pagiging SFC and kahit anong activities na dumating wala kaming inatrasan. Sama sama kami san man mapadpad.

Hay... you really can't please everyone to be exactly as what you are or how you want them to be.

I don't want to meddle things naman with my anakis' private life. Kasi, even I got a private life and I don't want anybody to go and intrude with it. Lalo na on the times that I wanted to get alone or to be with my God's Greatest Gift. Kaya lang, ang kinalulungkot ko lang is why they can't be more active in SFC?  

Is God trying to challenge my faithfulness to him? He knows that these children are one of my weaknesses. Hay.. God has its own reasons why these things are happening..

Through blog hopping, one blog caught my attention.. Not because of whom the author is or what the blog skin looks like, it is all about the content of her updated blog..

She says this... Honestly, I really don't get what she exactly wanted to say. But one thing I am sure is, GOD NEVER SAYS NO to us. HE only answered us a YES and WAIT.

And the bible says from...

Luke 11:9-10
Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks, it will be opened.

Practically speaking, you will never ask some things that you don't want. Obviously, you're asking for some things because that is what you want, aiyt???

Have you tried to ask some things that you don't want? Well, I bet not, coz no reason at all for you to ask for some things if you doesn't want to.

And to be fair with her, part of her blog is true.. People used to decide without thinking and people used to do stupid things but honestly speaking, things got its own reasons...

But at the end of the line, it's still her blog, her opinion and her right to express everything under the sun the way it is.

This response of mine is just a simple view and belief, nothing personal.

Lesson: Ask and learn to wait. Follow and accept what God's will for you...